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发表于2024-06-16
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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
太多的爱就没有性
评分对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast,这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)~ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好,但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害,跟supervisors讨论了很多次,为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷(够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些,但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅,对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊,也不那么“实践”向。
评分它告诉你婚姻是如何成为爱情的坟墓的。人和人之间靠得太近,就会连对象的面貌都看不清。
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评分【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge,最需要的完全释放】一切关于性,又高于性. 两性之间的关系,在性中升华紧密,却又因为婚姻的捆绑,而导致性欲下降,从而引致焦虑与疏远。床上“风骚/风情”,床下柔情,多少人的幻想,是需要努力与技能的。多些separateness,ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正视双方的fantasy与the looming third,hot sex总会有的!总之,放轻松,少焦虑,寻找适合双方的婚姻(Sex)相处之道。
文/彭小华 发于2019.11.11总第923期《中国新闻周刊》 静雅的丈夫出轨了,他感到愧疚、抱歉,坦言深陷新的恋情不能自已。 静雅夫妻是大学同学,感情基础牢固,关系融洽;两人比翼齐飞,事业双双发展;一个可爱的儿子都上初三了,他们与各自的父母和亲友相处和谐;她自身形象姣好...
评分婚姻到底意味着什么,是收获甜蜜的梦乡,还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想,或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子,是因为它引起了人...
评分在我看来,婚姻大概是世界上最微妙、最脆弱的关系了。两个人相互牵手,发誓要白头到老、共度一生。谁知道刚过了最初的新婚燕尔,一切就改变了模样:七年之痒、中年危机相继而来,出轨、欺骗、背叛一桩接着一桩。曾经相爱的人彼此猜忌、相互敌视,最终把好端端的婚姻过成了爱情...
评分版权归作者所有,任何形式转载请联系作者。 作者:玛雅(来自豆瓣) 来源:https://www.douban.com/note/694550248/ When you love someone, how does it feel? When you desire someone, how is it different? 之前提过在任何关系里首先要改变的不是对方,而应该是自己的认知...
评分1.只谈恋爱不结婚就会更快乐吗? 在最近一年里,我跟朋友们聊天时,感情问题占据了大部分时间: 为什么我们在一起各玩各的手机? 为什么对方总是说一些让我不高兴的话? 为什么热恋时精心打扮善于聊天的那个人变成了现在这个样子? 为什么我感觉被忽略了而生气,对方却觉得我无...
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024