圖書標籤: 心理學 psychology Happiness 幸福 心理 Daniel.Gilbert 積極心理學 英文原版
发表于2024-06-16
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Why are lovers quicker to forgive their partners for infidelity than for leaving dirty dishes in the sink? Why will sighted people pay more to avoid going blind than blind people will pay to regain their sight? Why do dining companions insist on ordering different meals instead of getting what they really want? Why do patients remember long medical procedures as being less painful than short ones? Why do home sellers demand prices they wouldn’t dream of paying if they were home buyers? Why are shoppers happier when they can’t get refunds? Why do pigeons seem to have such excellent aim; why can’t we remember one song while listening to another; and why does the line at the grocery store always slow down the moment we join it?
In this brilliant, witty, and accessible book, renowned Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert describes the foibles of imagination and illusions of foresight that cause each of us to misconceive our tomorrows and misestimate our satisfactions. Vividly bringing to life the latest scientific research in psychology, cognitive neuroscience, philosophy, and behavioral economics, Gilbert reveals what scientists have discovered about the uniquely human ability to imagine the future, and about our capacity to predict how much we will like it when we get there. With penetrating insight and sparkling prose, Gilbert explains why we seem to know so little about the hearts and minds of the people we are about to become.</p>
Daniel Gilbert is Harvard College Professor of Psychology at Harvard University. He has won numerous awards for his teaching and research, including the American Psychological Association's Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology. His research has been covered by The New York Times Magazine, Forbes, Money, CNN, U.S. News & World Report, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, Scientific American, Self, Men's Health, Redbook, Glamour, Psychology Today, and many others. His short stories have appeared in Amazing Stories and Asimov's Science Fiction Magazine, as well as other magazines and anthologies. He lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
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評分跟雞湯毫無關係,科學地論證瞭為什麼想象不靠譜,因為我們會填補空白,用當前去設想未來以及沒有考慮到一旦事情發生,完全跟現實不一樣,尤其是壞的事情。我們能夠做到的是,"our great big brains do not allow us to go surefootedly into our futures, they at least allow us to understand what makes us stumble."
評分有意思的是,這本書不是教你如何變得快樂, 而且探討人們如何看待開心快樂這件事,一般來說,對於當下的心情,人們的描述還是相當準確的, 但接下來就談到瞭過去和未來,人就開始使用MEMORY 和 IMAGINATION... 但它們是FLAWED AND BIASED...看這本書的時候深切體會到黑天鵝作者的關於QUOTE的說明,都是心理學傢,這本書引用的很多研究跟THINKING , FAST AND SLOW 相似,隻是有的地方解釋有點不同.
評分雖然說是暢銷書卻其實是心理學入門書,喜歡心理學的推薦,要是就想著當雞湯看那就搞錯書瞭。
評分幾本幸福心理學為主題的暢銷書中,這本的文學性和哲學性最高,實用性卻是最低。Gilbert並不在乎給你什麼實用的建議,而是引發你對於人類認知的探索和調侃。
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評分花了近一周的业余时间看完了《撞上快乐》,当初是冲着书名在当当上买了它,买之前我还专门去豆瓣上看了别人写的书评,并且一而再再而三地阅读这本书的简介,最终才决定买下来,记得还不便宜,二十多块钱吧。 当然,我是被“撞上快乐”这四个字给蒙蔽了,因为我本来是想学习下如...
評分一个幸福的人,必须有一个明确的、可以带来快乐和意义的目标,然后努力地去追求。真正快乐的人,会在自己觉得有意义的生活方式里,享受它的点点滴滴。 一个幸福的人,是即能享受当下所做的事,又可以获得美满的未来。 寻找真正能让自己快乐而有意义的目标,才是获得幸福的关键...
評分这本《哈佛幸福课》是中信出版社的一位编辑送我的,送的时候没跟我说写评论的事。前几天我看完了这本书,看的时候写了一点读书笔记,于是便据此写了下面这篇可能有些跑题的书评。 这本书原来曾以《撞上快乐》这样一个书名出过一版,可能第一版卖得不太理想,于是改了书名又出了...
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