图书标签: 心理学 psychology Happiness 幸福 心理 Daniel.Gilbert 积极心理学 英文原版
发表于2024-06-16
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Why are lovers quicker to forgive their partners for infidelity than for leaving dirty dishes in the sink? Why will sighted people pay more to avoid going blind than blind people will pay to regain their sight? Why do dining companions insist on ordering different meals instead of getting what they really want? Why do patients remember long medical procedures as being less painful than short ones? Why do home sellers demand prices they wouldn’t dream of paying if they were home buyers? Why are shoppers happier when they can’t get refunds? Why do pigeons seem to have such excellent aim; why can’t we remember one song while listening to another; and why does the line at the grocery store always slow down the moment we join it?
In this brilliant, witty, and accessible book, renowned Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert describes the foibles of imagination and illusions of foresight that cause each of us to misconceive our tomorrows and misestimate our satisfactions. Vividly bringing to life the latest scientific research in psychology, cognitive neuroscience, philosophy, and behavioral economics, Gilbert reveals what scientists have discovered about the uniquely human ability to imagine the future, and about our capacity to predict how much we will like it when we get there. With penetrating insight and sparkling prose, Gilbert explains why we seem to know so little about the hearts and minds of the people we are about to become.</p>
Daniel Gilbert is Harvard College Professor of Psychology at Harvard University. He has won numerous awards for his teaching and research, including the American Psychological Association's Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology. His research has been covered by The New York Times Magazine, Forbes, Money, CNN, U.S. News & World Report, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, Scientific American, Self, Men's Health, Redbook, Glamour, Psychology Today, and many others. His short stories have appeared in Amazing Stories and Asimov's Science Fiction Magazine, as well as other magazines and anthologies. He lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
从书名上看出,这并不是一本教你如何变得更加幸福的书。这本书阐述了大众对于幸福的常见错误认知,比如金钱,地位,天生缺陷,挫折对于幸福感的长期影响。作者罗列了很多有趣并且严密的实验,说明了人对未来幸福感的预测和记忆有着相同的一些缺陷,比如省略细节,... 此外,还有一个重大不足,就是低估自己在大喜大悲之后的复原力。 一些有趣的事实: 1. 人是唯一会思考未来的动物,因为我们有比较特别的大脑前叶。 2. 大多数连体人并不想分开。本书对我的三大启示:一,记忆是个极其不可靠的东西,有可能的话尽量记录下来。二,幻(yi)想(ying)是不个极其不可靠的东西,喜欢作者的建议 - 多读书,从而知道其他人在这些情况真正发生时的感受。三, 人更容易悔恨没做的事,而不是做过的事,so just do it.
评分人要先快乐 学习工作效率才高 = =
评分前面几章节太多关于科学研究;实验数据的解释,不利于扩大阅读对象。
评分有意思的是,这本书不是教你如何变得快乐, 而且探讨人们如何看待开心快乐这件事,一般来说,对于当下的心情,人们的描述还是相当准确的, 但接下来就谈到了过去和未来,人就开始使用MEMORY 和 IMAGINATION... 但它们是FLAWED AND BIASED...看这本书的时候深切体会到黑天鹅作者的关于QUOTE的说明,都是心理学家,这本书引用的很多研究跟THINKING , FAST AND SLOW 相似,只是有的地方解释有点不同.
评分5-star Many conclusions can be collected as valuable notes. And the writing is hilarious and vivid. Appreciate the professor.
只有激情,那只是短暂的 只有意义,有可能是痛苦的。 幸福是什么呢? 可能真的有些答案是 猫吃鱼,狗吃肉,奥特曼打小怪兽。 不过其实,这些都只是激情而已。 其实真正的幸福是: 猫吃到了自己努力抓到的鱼,狗吃了主人特地为他买来的肉肉,奥特曼打败了一个马上要毁灭地球...
评分 评分#每天浏览一本书# 19/600 《哈佛幸福课》你幸福吗?为什么你我忙碌终日,辛勤工作赚钱的结果,却仍有极大可能缺失内心的幸福感?幸福力不是本能,是技能,你我都需要学习,才能收获满心幸福。 --------------------------------------------------------------------- 买了不...
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